Dear Collin,
This letter is really only going to be titled for you even
though the message is going out to everyone, but I feel it would be a little
bit more meaningful if this letter is a little bit more centered around you.
Before that I need to respond back to some of the emails. First off, nice
temple picture. Mom is looking good! Haven't aged a bit since I have left.
Second, Dad, thanks for the rebuke on the sheep. You were totally right. That
would have been pretty lame getting seriously hurt. Third, Ava's puppy has a
funny looking nose. It's really pink! But so is part of my head that got bashed
into the ground. It might scar!
Now Collin time. I got some advice for you! ARE YOU
READY?!?!
#1 This is not going in order of importance. But the first
thing is Be safe on your mission! Don’t chase sheep! Be careful on your bike,
and be careful when you’re driving. Getting tickets is NO FUN! By the
way, more information on my ticket: I got the infringement notice in the
mail... and this is word for word what it said "Operated vehicle in a
manner liable to cause annoyance... 600$" President Rudd will
probably not have me fight it in court as ridiculous as that is, it doesn't look
good for the Church showing up in court... In the States if you took that to a
judge he would probably just laugh.
#2 Work your buns off! We just had the assistants come down
from Ham town to visit us. They stayed two nights and worked with us all
Sunday. I realized something cool. A lot of missionaries need to put on a good
face and plan better for the day, work harder throughout the day, and be a
little more obedient while the APs are watching. It felt really good not having
to worry about putting on a face or changing anything that I would
normally do. A good measure of your work can be seen on how hard you work
when you think nobody is watching (that was kind of half stolen from PMG
chapter 6 under the Christlike attribute Virtue). Also, by the way, one of the
Assistants, Elder Hirschi, has one of those funny chest cavity thingies and he
and I are pretty tight. We play pranks on each other all the time... Anyways
the 1st morning before he got in the shower I got the other elders to pounce on
him and hold him down while I grabbed milk and cereal and poured it
in for a makeshift bowl. Totally got it on video too.
#3 The most important thing that should be focused on is WHO
you become. Let me make this one very clear and something I hope you never
forget. You’re not going on a mission for you. You’re going on a mission
to save others who need saving, and your going because that's what the Lord
wants. However, the reason I say focus on WHO you will become is because
if you become someone who is filled with the Spirit, Testimony, Faith, Optimism,
Hope, Charity, and Complete and Absolute desire to Obey all of God's
Commandments, then your purpose to invite others to come unto Christ will be
SOOOO Much easier. There are so many things that missionaries have to worry
about: Working with Members, Talking with Strangers, Following the Spirit,
Keeping the Rules, Reactivation, Baptizing, Teaching Skills, Leaving and
following up on commitments, Personal and Companion Study, Leadership
Responsibilities, and MUCH MUCH MORE. Elder Galt (the assistant) explained to
me, “I don’t think there will ever be a missionary who is doing everything
PERFECT all at once. There is just so much to do it's near impossible to master
everything at once, but if there is anything that would be important to keep
with us the rest of our lives would be just what I mentioned, WHO we become.
#4 Gain a testimony of the Book of Mormon. That book is so
true. Read it every day of your mission. I think I have finished 6 times and
going for a 7th before I leave the mission field. It will give you so much
power to do your work. Some missionaries go out without reading it all the way
through. I could safely assume you have read it once if not multiple times, but
find a real love for that book on your mission.
#5 Don’t feel bad if things get hard. It’s meant to go that
way.
#6 Follow the Spirit. Don’t be the missionary that needs to
get prompted 3 times.
#7 Sometimes you’re going to have to care more about a
missionary’s salvation than your friendship.
#8 Be careful of what you pack. That is your life for the
next two years.
#9 Don’t be afraid to have fun (appropriate fun). The
Cheerios and milk from the chest bowl may have been a little over the top. J
#10 Live in the moment. Don’t worry about Family, Friends,
School. All of those things can sit and wait. Live in the moment. Make every
day meaningful because one day you will be at the end like me and you will want
to look back on what you accomplished with a big smile on your face.
Love,
Elder Ward
P.S. There is heaps more advice I could give, but I guess
you will just have to figure that all out. Be good Collin (Elder Ward #3). Save
a seat for me at your setting apart. J